Pray Please

[malinda]

Please pray for daughter who's going to family court next week. She has been in a battle now for a year. The father of her baby took off when he found out she was pregnant . He came back when she was was 8 months along and stayed around till the baby was 3 weeks old. Mind you he didn't come around but about 5 times after the baby was born for about 15 minutes at a time. The baby was about a year old and he served my daughter with papers wanting joint custody among other things. Ever since then they have been doing the court thing. Guardian at lit em has visited his home and his lawyer has dropped him as a client but the boy wants a trial. My granddaughter is very scared of him due to him spanking her when she was only 15 months old. He is a very violent man who does a lot of things that is against the law. I have been praying that he gets caught. I 'm very scared for my granddaughter to be around him due to him being a high tempered person. He has no respect for the law and he don't care who knows. He has called and threatened my family, my mother in law and even my mother. He has called and harassed them to the point they have had to call the police on him. He even argued with the city police office that called and asked him to stop calling. He has beat on my daughter,cut her tire, harassed her followed her and she is very scared of him. So when they went to court yesterday he lost his lawyer due to him doing things that was very wrong and his lawyer had warned him. So she had enough and dropped him. He asked for a trial and my daughter takes everything she got to pay her lawyer and he pays no support. If he would let this nonsense go my daughter has agreed no support from him seeing how he hasn't paid anything anyway. My family loves my granddaughter very much and we only want the best for her. Please pray for my daughter when she goes to court next week to court on Tuesday. Thank you so much.

[PoPo]

Malinda, I think we know one another, and have talked on the phone. He is treading on thin ice. I may be there at court, just to get a look at him. I'll teach him to have respect for the Police one way or the other. The main thing to do, is call and get a report EVERY single time he calls, or makes a threat, so that a PATTERN can be established. Once 3 DOCUMENTED incidents are established, a warrant can be issued. There MUST be 3 DOCUMENTED reports. Don't worry about having to call the Sheriff's Dept. as many times as needed. I will be working in the city Fri-Sat-Sun during the day from 7a-7p. If he follows your daughter anywhere in the city, call 911 and drive toward the Police Dept. If he calls your family member that lives in the city, tell her to call 911 and request Officer Bolton. Get me copies of your reports that are taken, and I'll also use any copies of reports I take. Stay in touch with me concerning this. ALSO, your daughter needs to get child support payments established, and a restraining order. He should also be issued a TRESPASS NOTICE from your property. You can request this from the Sheriff's Deputy. The only reason he is continuing this pattern of behavior, is due to not being pressured by law enforcement. I cannot speak on the County's behalf, but I will do everything I can in the City. IF he is who I think he is, I tried to get a warrant signed, but the judge said that I must show a pattern within the city. So, PLEASE let your family member know to call 911 EVERY time he calls her. AND make sure I am advised. Call 489-8112 tomorrow, and tell them you need to leave a message for Officer Bolton. My extension number is 4280. Leave me your home phone number, and his name and date of birth.

[Jack Frost]

I've seen some judges make some pretty stupid decisions, but if he hasn't paid any child support at all, then I would not think he would stand a chance at getting joint custody. In fact, your daughter's lawyer should ask that any visitation rights he gets at all, should be supervised visitation. I would even go so far as to get a restraining order, because with the type personality you are discribing, he would no doubt violate it, and thereby giving you another strike against him to use. The "system" can work both for you and against you, and if in a simular situation, I would do everything I could to make it work for me. Also, as alluded to by Paramedic, sometimes all that matters is who you know.

[malinda]

Thank you so much. He was suppose to be paying child support but boy that is a joke. They went to court yesterday and he was told he had to pay through the courts but who knows. He was suppose to help my daughter pay for the babys insurance which is 310 a month and he dont pay his half. So she pays it and she only brings home 312 every other week. After they take all the insurance out. I feel bad for my daughter she lost her bedroom suite a couple of months ago then about a month ago she lost her laptop computer she had about taking classes online and 2 weeks ago she had to give her car back to the car lot she couldnt keep it.Everytime they go to court it is more money. Now the judge has got mad and making both of them pay off their lawyers by the end of the week. They have to pay off the guardian at litem 350 by the end of the week. It isnt fair. He dont care about the baby he is doing just to agrravate my daughter.He always has said if he cant have her no one will. Scum is what I call him. If you went to Montgomery Street that was it. Had no idea that was you Paramedic. Gee small world.The scum ask for a trial because my daughters lawyer ask that this case be dismissed. I dont understand how he keeps gettign away with so much. I do have a trespass otice on him and if he comes my way I will make sure he goes to jail. Thanks for your prays and your help. It feels good just to ventand have someone to talk to about this matter.

[malinda]

Paramedic I'll call tomorrpw I havent forgot. This mess has keep things in a mess around my home too long. This child shouldnt be put through what she is going through.

[malinda]

please keep praying court didnt go good . the judge gave him back his rights without hearing all sides the judge gave them hour and half to talk and he used all of it. the judge called time and made the decision to give him back visitation. boy what a shock our lawyer was in disbelief. his family had been in the lobby the whole time giving us a hard time but we ignored them. my daughter came out of the court room and fell at my knees crying. the judge rescheduled but he gave him he visitation back. without hearing all the witnesses and the guardian at litem. my daughter didnt even get to talk. so of course my daughter was not happy she was hurt by it all. so when his mama keep laughing , pointing amd calling her a wh--- my daughter snapped. big mistake, she went out the door crying and telling the mama i will get you. but she meant letting people know that they were doing drugs and selling them.and yes she meant she was wanting to just slap her good but this is a family who has run my family to the digs plus the abuse of this child. My daughter ended up getting arrested by the county. Plus I almost got arrested for trying to calm her down. Now my daughter who has never been in trouble has a police record due to this family. i know my daughter has got to control her temper but no ones knows what this family has put her and that child through and also her whole family. The judge went back and changed things when he found out Ashley got arrested. They go back to court dec. 3 again.they have even threanted to put my sweet grandchild in dss care. Please i beg you all to pray for my family.I have not forgot to call you paramedic i just hate to bother anyone. we feel like no one will listen to us. so please all of you please pray for my child and grandchild i cant loose them we are a good family we go to church we have never been in trouble we law abiding citizens and we believe that one day things will get better for us. please pray. Paramedic you don know me fro ma call you went on at montgomery street.

[malinda]

will the judge has moved our court day up to this thursday instead of Jan. please i beg all of you to pray for my family this baby is our live i know he dont desrve to get her without supervised visits. if all if you knew this person you would say the same thing. i dont have a reason to live without her around my daughter is a great mother and baby is the best baby in the world. she cries when she sees him coming so please please pray for the court day to turn out good. i love my family and we love this beatiful baby. she is almost 2 years and she has curly hair and eyes that sparkle my life isnt worth living without this baby and we all feel the same they keep saying its not for you adults it is for the child. this child is not taken care of when he has her. please pray i beg you all. thank you so much to all of you for letting me paot this